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Monday, October 1, 2012

We're Heading Over to Our New Place...

Hi All!

We're currently transitioning from "Blogger" to hosting the HUMBLED blog on our humbled website. :) We'll leave this one up, but we'll soon be posting new entries there. Be sure to check it out @ http://humbledjw.net/blog/.

(above) A Snapshot of the HUMBLED Blog at it's New Home


































Just head on over to our website and click "Blog" at the top of the homepage.
Voila!

Hope to see you there!! 

Thanks and have a great evening!!

~ Team HUMBLED
http://humbledjw.net/blog/

Friday, September 28, 2012

"I Suck at Being A Dad" ~JW

 Jayson Williams Speaks Freely with ESPN's Matt Wong

 Nearly five and a half months since former NBA Nets player Jayson Williams "hit the bricks" and bid his concrete block on Rikers Island farewell, he chats freely with ESPN's Matt Wong about life after prison.
Jayson covers it all--- the shooting, his time behind bars, his ongoing sobriety, and how he safeguards his new freedom by surrounding himself with people who will hold him accountable. He shares how his second book Humbled ~ Letters from Prison came about, and why he's not up for "Father of the Year" anytime soon.

So does Jayson Williams have a strategy for staying clean and sober?

And what does he think about a potential NBA comeback?

To read Matt Wong's full article on ESPN.com, click here.

Watch "The Mighty Fall," --a short video summarizing Jayson's story.



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Enjoy!!

~ Team Humbled

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Cowards Do That!












" I'd hold you up to say to your mother, "this kid's gonna be the best kid in the world. This kid's gonna be somebody better than anybody I ever knew." And you grew up good and wonderful. It was great just watching you, every day was like a privilege. Then the time come for you to be your own man and take on the world, and you did. But somewhere along the line, you changed. You stopped being you. You let people stick a finger in your face and tell you you're no good. And when things got hard, you started looking for something to blame, like a big shadow. Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done! Now if you know what you're worth then go out and get what you're worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain't you! You're better than that! I'm always gonna love you no matter what. No matter what happens. You're my son and you're my blood. You're the best thing in my life. But until you start believing in yourself, ya ain't gonna have a life."
-- Rocky Balboa


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Friday, September 14, 2012

"World's Ugliest Woman" Has a Message for Bullies ~ "Stop Staring & Start Learning"

Lizzie Velasquez 

 

 

Lizzie's Story ~ "We had to dress her in doll clothes from a toy store..."

Hear her parents explain how they knew something was wrong. 

 

Bullies Behind Computers

Lizzie talks to Drew Pinsky on CNN about the bullies behind their computers.

 

 

Learn More

Visit Lizzie's blog here.

Lizzie shares her secret to dealing with the people who have suggested she kill herself. She offers hope to those in similar situations, "Let's put an end to bullying right now."

Hear Her Courageous Talk on Bullying featured on ABC News : ABC News Story on Lizzie Velasquez

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Occupy Our Corners w/ Reverend Al Sharpton


(highlights from today's article by Jessica Shiraz in the New York Observer)

 Last Friday night, huddled together at the corner of 111th street and 5th Avenue in Harlem, a circle of about thirty individuals held hands.
Reverend and anti-violence activist Vernon Williams told The Observer why he was supporting Occupy the Corners.“I know that people in this particular area say, why are you standing in that corner right there, and I say, because I know what goes down on this corner, he declared. “When we leave here, like last week when we left here, there was a shooting. The week before that there was a fight. We know that our presence makes a difference.

“Unfortunately, I’ve done a hundred-plus funerals of young people in the community,” Mr. Williams added, his voice shaking with anger. “This is my nephew’s mother. Reggie Andrews---he was murdered right here, in front of his house on his birthday, and that’s why I’m on this corner.”
Reggie Andrews
A number of parents were present whose children had been killed in shootings. Nathan D. Allsbrooks’s mother and father set up a charity, the Nathan D. Allsbrooks Foundation, in memory of their son, whose life was cut short at fifteen. They were wearing T-shirts with a photograph of Nathan printed on them.
“My son was killed in 2008, just walking by. Someone senselessly came by and…” Cherise Smith trailed off, her eyes glistening with tears. “I see a lot of stuff on the news…
Nathan Allsbrooks
Nathan Allsbrooks
Reverend Al Sharpton & Jayson Williams

...It’s all in close proximity, you don’t know until it hits home, how horrific it can be. It ran on the news the whole week.”

Professional basketball player, Jayson Williams, who served an 18-month prison sentence for the manslaughter of Costas Christofi, offered a few words of comfort to Nathan’s father as he made a speech to the crowd.
“Dad, I can feel your pain, I’ve caused a lot of pain in my life and I’m here to try to make as much amends as I can,” Mr. Williams said softly. “I don’t pretend to have all the answers here, I’m still learning as I go, but I can assure you that I want to be a part of this, and anything I can do to reach the young people, and not-so-young people, to help stop the violence in our community, please call on me whenever.”

Basketball coach, Chez Williams, was present on behalf Taylonn Murphy, the father of Tayshana “Chicken” Murphy, who was murdered last September.
Tayshana "Chicken" Murphy

“She played basketball for me,” Mr. Williams explained. “Apparently, she was out late. Her brother got into a fight with another kid… and they came back after the fight to retaliate, and instead they shot Chicken, because she was outside. Chicken was eighteen. She had offers from all types of colleges.”


To read the entire article, click here.

Embrace the Shake ~


  1. Everything Changed.
  2. I had trouble holding everything.
  3. Embrace the Shake?
  4. I just had to find a different approach.
  5. I began experimenting.
  6. Embracing a Limitation Can Actually Drive Creativity.
  7. Goodbye Art!
  8. Saw new possibilities...
  9. Opened up a whole new phase of creativity...
  10. I now move from frustration to anticipation really quickly.
  11. Barriers = Something amazing might come of it...
  12. Our ability to create is the most powerful tool we have to attain security.
  13. Limitations = most unlikely of places to drive creativity.
  14. Limitations = one of the best ways to get out of ruts, rethink categories, and challenge accepted norms.
  15. Seize the limitation!
~ Phil Hansen

Monday, September 10, 2012

Life's Instructions

Life's Instructions
by Thom Byxbe

  1. Become someone’s hero.
  2. Take charge of your attitude. Don’t let someone else choose it for you.
  3. Have a firm handshake.
  4. Look people in the eye.
  5. Sing in the shower.Own a great stereo system.
  6. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
  7. Keep secrets.
  8. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
  9. Always accept an outstretched hand.
  10. Be brave. Even if you’re not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
  11. Whistle.
  12. Avoid sarcastic remarks.
  13. Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
  14. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.
  15. Lend only those books you never care to see again.
  16. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.
  17. When playing games with children, let them win.
  18. Give people a second chance, but not a third.
  19. Be romantic.
  20. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
  21. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
  22. Don’t allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It’s there for our convenience, not the caller’s.
  23. Be a good loser.
  24. Be a good winner.
  25. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
  26. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
  27. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
  28. Keep it simple.
  29. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
  30. Don’t burn bridges. You’ll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
  31. Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets
  32. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
  33. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
  34. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
  35. Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes.
  36. Begin each day with some of your favorite music.
  37. Once in a while, take the scenic route.
  38. Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, ‘Someone who thinks you’re terrific.’
  39. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
  40. Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
  41. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
  42. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
  43. Make someone’s day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.
  44. Marry only for love.
  45. Count your blessings.
  46. Compliment the meal when you’re a guest in someone’s home.
  47. Wave at the children on a school bus.
  48. Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
  49. Don’t expect life to be fair.

    Saturday, September 8, 2012

    Youth Summit ~ Keynote Speaker Former NBA All-Star Jayson Williams

    Keynote Speaker, Former NBA ALL STAR Jayson Williams

    Free Pittsfield Youth Summit happens Saturday Sept 8th with youth-focused workshops and keynote speaker, former NBA All Star, Jayson Williams. In cooperation with Healing Winds and a local group that is working to reestablish the local chapter of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP), Jayson Williams, a powerful and dynamic motivational speaker, will give the keynote talk at the Youth Summit at 9:30am. Mr. Jayson Williams is the author of “Humbled: Letters from Prison,” and speaks to groups about his experiences as a professional basketball player, the decisions and circumstances that ended his career and sent him to jail, and the efforts that he has made at redemption since his release.



    YOUTH SUMMIT ~ DAY IN THE BERKSHIRES
    Empower Our Youth
    A coalition of city departments, community organizations, and adults and youth from the local community have come together in hopes of developing strategies to empower our youth, facilitate communication between adolescents and adults, demonstrate and teach civic responsibility, and increase community accountability. The group, called the Coalition for Greater Community Collaboration, has organized a free Pittsfield Youth Summit, to be held on Saturday, September 8th, from 8:30am to 4:30pm at Berkshire Community College (1350 West St.) in Pittsfield, MA.
    The Summit is free to all Pittsfield area youth ages 13 to 20, and free bus transportation will be provided. It begins at 8:30am with registration and a continental breakfast, followed by welcoming remarks from Pittsfield Mayor Daniel Bianchi and others.

    WORKSHOPS
    Following the keynote talk at 9:30am, attendees will have a choice of workshops followed by lunch (provided at no cost to attendees) and another workshop session. Workshop choices sessions include youth/police relations; health, nutrition and fitness, money management; race and identity; art and music; how to find and keep a job; and more.

    NITE SHOW
    In the evening Berkshire Youth Summit Nite Show at Berkshire Community College will be offered at 8pm, free to attendees and $5 for the general public. Performers will include Cloud9, Youth Alive, hip hop dancers Mackenzie Buckley and Julius Reese, local singer-songwriter Christine Bile, and special guest rappers Buddha Da Great from New York City, and Young Gwop Rapper, Hartford, along with others.


     Special Thanks to Our SPONSORS
    The Pittsfield Youth Summit’s lead sponsors include Berkshire United Way, Berkshire Bank Foundation, Greylock Federal Credit Union, the City of Pittsfield, Berkshire Community College, and others. Members of the Coalition for Greater Community Collaboration, consists of local adolescents, youth advocates, the Pittsfield Police Department, Berkshire County Sheriff’s Office, the City of Pittsfield Office of Cultural Development, Berkshire Rocks, Multicultural BRIDGE, Healing Winds and many other local partners.
    Special thanks to Massive Graphics for designing the event logo.

     FUTURE GOALS & PLANS
    The coalition will continue to meet and develop other initiatives to accomplish some of their goals. Among the projects that have been identified are an adolescent drop in center, athletic based mentoring, and the reinstatement of the Pittsfield Youth Commission. For more information, visit http://coalition.pittsfieldpd.org or call 413-841-8770.

    Read more about it here. 

    Friday, September 7, 2012

    Thursday, September 6, 2012

    Jayson Williams' Personal Notes from Prison

    Excerpt from Jayson's journal
    Great reminder!

    Click here to visit our website.
    Have a blessed day!

     

    To love is to risk not being loved in return. 

    To hope is to risk pain.  

    To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken

     because the greatest hazard in life 

    is to risk nothing.”

     ~ author unknown



    Tuesday, September 4, 2012

    Videos for Humbled ~ Letters from Prison

    Recently we've received several e-mails requesting the links to some of the videos we've posted since the release of Humbled ~ Letters from Prison. Here they are in one convenient location.
    Enjoy!






    Sunday, September 2, 2012

    Holding On to God

    BCNN's article on how Jayson is Learning to Hold on To God


    "Give me neither poverty nor riches..."  Prov 30:8-9

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    Thursday, August 30, 2012

    Next Saturday, September 8th, Jayson Williams Featured Keynote At Pittsfield Youth Summit

    Next Saturday, September 8th, Pittsfield Youth Summit
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    Former NBA All-Star Jayson Williams Featured Keynote Speaker


    What: Pittsfield Youth Summit, featuring keynote speaker Jayson Williams,
    formerly of the NBA.
    When: Saturday, Sept. 8. Times are TBA.
    Where: Berkshire Community College.
    Information: For more details on how to participate in this free event, call (413) 499-9348.
    In addition: From 8-9:30 p.m. on Sept. 8, there will be the Youth Summit after-hours show for ages 14 and up. Performances are by hip-hop dancer Mackenzie Buckley; Youth Alive step dancers and band; rappers Young Gwop from Hartford, Conn., and Buddha Da Great from New York City; singer Christine Bile of Pittsfield; and a performance by TriState Empire. Berkshire Community College auditorium, 1350 West St., Pittsfield. The cost is $5 at the door; free for youth summit attendees. For more information, call (413) 446-6261 or (413) 854-4439 and ask for Michelle or Jmar.

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    Monday, August 27, 2012

    HUMBLED ~ LETTERS FROM PRISON Hardcover on Sale

    FYI friends...

    The hardcover edition of HUMBLED ~ LETTERS FROM PRISON is on sale for almost 35% off retail on Amazon.com.
    Click the image below for more info!

    Thursday, August 23, 2012

    Push 4 Peace ~ Jayson Williams joins LIVE show in Harlem with Lisa Evers



    HOT 97 Street Soldiers PUSH 4 PEACE is coming to HARLEM!!!
     
    - Street Soldiers Town Hall Show on Getting Beyond the Violence
    - Celebrity Artists and Athlete Guests
    - Open Mic Contest
    - Community Info Fair
    - Prizes and Refreshments

    IT'S ALL FREE TO THE COMMUNITY!!!
     
    Saturday, August 25th   1-5pm

    Wadleigh HS for Performing Arts
    215 W. 114th St NYC

    FOR MORE INFO: harlempush4peace@gmail.com
    TO ENTER CONTEST: openmiccontest@gmail.com
     

    Tuesday, August 21, 2012

    Thanks for Your Favorites

    So...
    Team HUMBLED has been receiving lots of e-mails and posts with your favorite quotes and letters from HUMBLED ~ Letters from Prison. 
    THANK YOU!
    The top favorites with multiple votes that have come in this week are "Vanilla", "Happy Birthday", "Let Sidney Sing", "Mid-State Radio", "Happy Labor Day", "Planted", "Rich or Poor", "Lessons at Eight", and "Just Do Me."  Keep your e-mails, comments and messages coming. We love to hear from you!

    A special shout-out to Andy Manahl for posting a picture of a couple pages from HUMBLED ~ Letters from Prison on his facebook page. We stole it from your page. :) 

        Enjoy your day!
    ~  Team HUMBLED  



    Wednesday, July 25, 2012

    Please pray for Petra Anderson and all those affected by the Aurora tragedy. 
    Check out this amazing story~

    Wednesday, July 18, 2012

    ICRS Orlando ~ Thanks for Sharing Humbled ~ Letters from Prison by Jayson Williams

    Thanks, Melody, for taking the time to post about Humbled ~ Letters from Prison. Glad you enjoyed it!
    A big shout out to everyone who had supported this effort. A special thank you to everyone who has posted a review on Amazon and BN.com and for the FB love and Tweets. You are appreciated!!



    Thursday, July 5, 2012

    In life we make choices . Some we can never take back. Former NBA All-Star Jayson Williams lives with his choice to recklessly handle a shotgun daily, hourly, and nothing can be done to bring his chauffeur, Mr. Christofi, back. Included in this brief shout-out to those who have made positive choices--namely those who have chosen to serve our great country--are clips from Jayson's interview on CNN with Don Lemon and audio clips from his interview with Fox 5's Lisa Evers. Visit us on http://www.humbledjw.net and follow us on twitter @humbledjw  Thanks for watching!